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In memory of those who have Crossed the Bar
AYERS, Bessie May - We are deeply saddened to announce the passing of the incomparable Bess Ayers. Bess passed peacefully on October 8, 2024 surrounded by her loving husband and daughters.
Bessie May Ayers (née Freeman) was born in Galahad, Alberta, April 20, 1930, to Joseph Freeman, a WWI veteran, and his British war bride Harriet Bigsby. Raised on the farm during the depression, Bess learned the value of hard work and of making do, as well as of the importance of generosity to others and an abiding optimism and delightful sense of humour.
After high school Bessie decided to become a nurse and enlisted her dad for the long and bumpy drive to the Royal Jubilee Hospital in Victoria, BC. A proud graduate of the class of 1951, she worked hard and loved every minute of the camaraderie, friendship and the challenge, and satisfaction of being a nurse in her twenties. Then, looking for even more adventure, she enlisted in the Royal Canadian Navy and served at Naden. Her service led her to meet the love of her life, Frederick Ayers, a gunner with an artillery unit at Workpoint Barracks, in February 1957. September 14 of the same year they were married. In their 67 years of very happy marriage, Bessie managed over 20 moves with their two daughters Cynthia Johnson (Patrick and Kristen) and Sylvia (Nicolas Milligan, Anthony, and Madeleine) across Canada, and Israel, Syria, and Belgium, arriving ultimately in Maple Bay in 1986.
Bess was the loveliest and sweetest of human beings who loved her family with unwavering devotion. She embraced every single day with joy and gratitude. Bess loved birds, brilliant flowers, ice cream, ocean views, popcorn, the Toronto Blue Jays, following the stock market, and current events. She loved a good party and hosted a warm and welcoming gathering for friends and family every New Years' Day. Bess had an insatiable curiosity and interest in everyone lucky enough to meet her. She never missed a birthday of her many friends and family and never forgot to ask after and check up on anyone who might be having a difficult time. Every single person who knew her absolutely basked in the light and warmth of her love and compassion.
Bess is greatly missed and so fondly remembered with love. (The Victoria Times Colonist 19 Oct 2024)
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